Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Need Advice About A Friend?

Ok my best friend of 6 years has been acting a lot different lately and it's really embarrassing when she drinks and makes a complete fool of herself, and whoever else is with her. She has a habit of not inviting me and our other friend out with her when she does stuff like out to eat, to the movies, or a party. But then she never calls us but always wants us to call her. I understand that she is a toxic friend that I need to really get rid of, but it's not that easy though. I have written her a 5 page letter telling her the complete truth about what I think of her. At the bottom of the letter I wrote the I don't think we should be friends anymore and I can no longer say that I am here for you. That's not how I want it but that's how it needs to be in order for me to be a better person. I am debating on sending the letter because it is harsh and it's all of my true feelings about her. I don't know what to do. Send it or NotNeed Advice About A Friend?
if you both have time, a really long period of vacant time, talk about it rather just giving her a letter, because in letter, it is just a one way communication, and in this delicate situation, both parties must be present and must talk about it in person. OK? because she can feel things you'll not expecting when she is reading it, and after she had read it. I can say that you must get rid of those kind of friends but they have their reason to explain in doing that so a letter is not appropriate .OK? and you'll both feel a relief if it is solve by the two of you, but with no hurt feelings, because this is very emotional right? so control and you're the one who must understand or do the listening. let her speaks her mind and explain her reasons, if the conversation is not that right or doesn't have any sense, end it, because you will not understand each other. good luckNeed Advice About A Friend?
is there another friend u can talk to? sorry I really can't help but i hope it works out.
if you both have time, a really long period of vacant time, talk about it rather just giving her a letter, because in letter, it is just a one way communication, and in this delicate situation, both parties must be present and must talk about it in person. OK? because she can feel things you'll not expecting when she is reading it, and after she had read it. I can say that you must get rid of those kind of friends but they have their reason to explain in doing that so a letter is not appropriate .OK? and you'll both feel a relief if it is solve by the two of you, but with no hurt feelings, because this is very emotional right? so control and you're the one who must understand or do the listening. let her speaks her mind and explain her reasons, if the conversation is not that right or doesn't have any sense, end it, because you will not understand each other. good luck
You better not be talking about me. Oh no we have only known each other for 2 years. Big head. I agree with dude up top.

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