this is about me and my boyfriend that i care so much about. please give me your honest opinion:
last night he came over and we got into the beer and started talking. we were listening to come really chill songs and it reminded me when we were baked. i told him that i felt we were closer while baked. he agreed. i also told him i want to do it again with him. he said he wanted to also. but today, now that he is sober, he said no and that is isnt going to unless i say yes. but i want to and he quit.. so i dont want him to get back on it. cuz if you do drugs a lot, then stop, then do it again, that first time you are going to get a really good high and im scared he will want to continue if that happens.he has been off weed for a month now, just for me. i dont want to be the cause of him starting again, yet i would like to experience the feeling a few more times. i know this is greedy of me and a bad thing.
what do i do??
please help me.Advice about weed. please help..?
if an illegal drug is what makes you guys feel close. there is a problem.Advice about weed. please help..?
If I were you, I would ask myself why I even smoke weed to begin with.
It seems to me like your boyfriend is the only one who wants to make his life better by avoiding drugs.
As for you, my advice is to do whatever it takes to get your mind off weed. You're not doing yourself any good.
I can't get any more honest than that.
You need to realize that what you think you know is just a doped up fiction. If you want to be close than quit drugs all together. That includes alcohol the most widely used and abused drug.
Friday, January 8, 2010
I need advice about a guy i like that i work with please?
theres a guy that i like at work,we used to go to school together,like i was a freshman and he was a senior or junior,we had the same class together but he didnt remember me but i remember him,we didnt talk at all back then and 3-4 yrs later im working with him,anyways,at work he acts real goofy and hugs me alot and stuff.i think 2 weekends ago he was a bit drunk,he kept on humping me in my back and hugging me too tight and kissed me on my forehead but said it was gross cuz i had sweat on it.but the next day he hugged me but not as much,i know he hugs quite a few ppl,like he flirts with girls around work sometimes he used to alot but not as much and he talks to me more.but yeah and next week,me him my friend and her friend are suppose to go to the movies to see the omen.but what should i do? and do u think he likes me cuz he does that stuff to me like hugs me?? and tomorrow i work with him and yeah,my friend asked 4 me to go w/ him to the movies and stuff but please i need advice pleasI need advice about a guy i like that i work with please?
I would not take too much into this. It sounds like he just likes to have a good time with all girls. Why dont you try and start flirting a little with him.I need advice about a guy i like that i work with please?
Ask him if he'd like to focus all that hugging energy on one girl.
You slept through the class about run-on sentences, didn't you
Ask him if he likes you cause alot of guys hug girls and that sends mixed emotions.
my love-
he most likley has some secret feelings for you! so when you go to the movies why don't you just be your self and show him who you can really be! k have a good time and work it GIRL!!! MUAH!
-lyndz
I would not take too much into this. It sounds like he just likes to have a good time with all girls. Why dont you try and start flirting a little with him.I need advice about a guy i like that i work with please?
Ask him if he'd like to focus all that hugging energy on one girl.
You slept through the class about run-on sentences, didn't you
Ask him if he likes you cause alot of guys hug girls and that sends mixed emotions.
my love-
he most likley has some secret feelings for you! so when you go to the movies why don't you just be your self and show him who you can really be! k have a good time and work it GIRL!!! MUAH!
-lyndz
I need advice about my relationship?
i'm trying to help my mom right now and my new boyfriend is drinking and being mean to me he is throwing up my exboyfrinds and trying to make me feel bad for himI need advice about my relationship?
get rid of the boyfriend. It sounds as if he has issues with drinking and perhaps several other things as well. Help your mom and help yourself as well by getting rid of someone that doesn't treat you very nicely....good luckI need advice about my relationship?
Girl, the fact that he's trying to make you feel bad for him and throwing a hissy fit means that he's trying to manipulate you. You have to trust me when I say that this boy is dangerous and he might hurt you or your mom. He's being verbally abusive and he's acting like a little kid. He's a dangerous person and you need to get rid of him before he hurts someone. Please listen to me. I've been there before and I'd do anything to prevent that from happening again.
This is a serious situation because the person who is drinking is not in control of himself. The booze is controlling him. So in effect, you are having a relationship with the booze, not the man. This can go on for a long long time, years or decades until the person quit boozing, or they may never quit. That's why my advice is not to have a relationship with anyone who is addicted to booze. Wait until they sober up. Good luck.
Go help your mom and dont feel bad about it. If this is a normal behavior for him to be drinking and acting distruptive. . .then I would consider some major chances in your relationship. Do not feel bad about him drinking. He can make his own decisions. When he sobers up talk about you and him. Drinking is a bad habit that could easily ruin a relationship.
look if he drinks u dont needto be with him anyway andif hes throwing things in your face break up wit him he will learn hi lesson
if hes hurting you and drinking you should break up with him before he really does damage to you. good luckbeauty makeup
get rid of the boyfriend. It sounds as if he has issues with drinking and perhaps several other things as well. Help your mom and help yourself as well by getting rid of someone that doesn't treat you very nicely....good luckI need advice about my relationship?
Girl, the fact that he's trying to make you feel bad for him and throwing a hissy fit means that he's trying to manipulate you. You have to trust me when I say that this boy is dangerous and he might hurt you or your mom. He's being verbally abusive and he's acting like a little kid. He's a dangerous person and you need to get rid of him before he hurts someone. Please listen to me. I've been there before and I'd do anything to prevent that from happening again.
This is a serious situation because the person who is drinking is not in control of himself. The booze is controlling him. So in effect, you are having a relationship with the booze, not the man. This can go on for a long long time, years or decades until the person quit boozing, or they may never quit. That's why my advice is not to have a relationship with anyone who is addicted to booze. Wait until they sober up. Good luck.
Go help your mom and dont feel bad about it. If this is a normal behavior for him to be drinking and acting distruptive. . .then I would consider some major chances in your relationship. Do not feel bad about him drinking. He can make his own decisions. When he sobers up talk about you and him. Drinking is a bad habit that could easily ruin a relationship.
look if he drinks u dont needto be with him anyway andif hes throwing things in your face break up wit him he will learn hi lesson
if hes hurting you and drinking you should break up with him before he really does damage to you. good luck
Acne!!!!! need advice about them!?
grrr.. acne!! i hate it!!! i just wanna know, does putting toothpaste like colgate help? it sounds kinda weird.. donn't you think? i know for a fact that proactiv doesn't work!!!!Acne!!!!! need advice about them!?
It depends on what kind of acne you're dealing with. If you have cysts, which are under the skin, then you will probably need perscription medicine. There is also topical perscrition medicine you can get from the doctor; I take benzaclin and retina. Good Luck!
P.S. proactiv didn't work for me, but the perscription does!Acne!!!!! need advice about them!?
if u have bad acne like i did dont use proactiv (doesnt work) dont use any topical stuff like clerasil, neutrogena, or other stuff. Ask your doctor about ACUTANE. Ilittle annoying because all of the restrictions but it WORKS!!!
toothpaste just dries out your skin. i take minocylen. you have to ask a dr. for it. 1 pill twice daily. been using it for 12 years.
No, try clearisil or at some dollar stores they sell mint julepe in a paste or a mud mask. Or you could use a hot towel to open up your pores and then pop the dreaded pimple.
It depends on what kind of acne you're dealing with. If you have cysts, which are under the skin, then you will probably need perscription medicine. There is also topical perscrition medicine you can get from the doctor; I take benzaclin and retina. Good Luck!
P.S. proactiv didn't work for me, but the perscription does!Acne!!!!! need advice about them!?
if u have bad acne like i did dont use proactiv (doesnt work) dont use any topical stuff like clerasil, neutrogena, or other stuff. Ask your doctor about ACUTANE. Ilittle annoying because all of the restrictions but it WORKS!!!
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toothpaste just dries out your skin. i take minocylen. you have to ask a dr. for it. 1 pill twice daily. been using it for 12 years.
No, try clearisil or at some dollar stores they sell mint julepe in a paste or a mud mask. Or you could use a hot towel to open up your pores and then pop the dreaded pimple.
I need advice about bullies.?
people at my school and my sister always tell me that i eat too much and that i'm fat and that i need to lose some weight. i don't think i'm really that big i'm like a size 8 and sometimes a size 10. it really hurts and i cry alot and i want to make myself throw up but ive heard that is not good. someone please tell me what to do !I need advice about bullies.?
Every person, especially girls, have some part of their body they don't like about themselves.
Next time a mean girl makes fun of you, you can make fun of:
a. Her pizza face
b. Her flat chest
c. Her buck teeth
d. Her yellow teeth
e. Her failing grades
There's always something about anyone.
The worst thing you can do is do nothing and let them get away with it. Trust me, you'll still be mad at them, and yourself, 20 years later.
If you look like Faith Hill at your 20 year reunion, and the mean girls look like Rosie O'Donnell, they won't give you the chance for revenge. They won't show up when it's your turn to tease.I need advice about bullies.?
u need to be more confident in ureself and i kno thats hard to do. if u want to loose weight then do it a healthy way. try not to listen to others. u have ure friends and family and they will always b there for u. dont give up just yet. :)
You can give it back.Everyone have to have something wrong about them.Find something wrong about them just like they do with u.
don't listen to them and make jokes about it and they will feel stupid about it or just admit it with a jock
-hope it help hit me up
dont make yourself throw up! who cares what those stupid people think! a size 8-10 is not fat. just keep your head held high and ignore them.
Every person, especially girls, have some part of their body they don't like about themselves.
Next time a mean girl makes fun of you, you can make fun of:
a. Her pizza face
b. Her flat chest
c. Her buck teeth
d. Her yellow teeth
e. Her failing grades
There's always something about anyone.
The worst thing you can do is do nothing and let them get away with it. Trust me, you'll still be mad at them, and yourself, 20 years later.
If you look like Faith Hill at your 20 year reunion, and the mean girls look like Rosie O'Donnell, they won't give you the chance for revenge. They won't show up when it's your turn to tease.I need advice about bullies.?
u need to be more confident in ureself and i kno thats hard to do. if u want to loose weight then do it a healthy way. try not to listen to others. u have ure friends and family and they will always b there for u. dont give up just yet. :)
You can give it back.Everyone have to have something wrong about them.Find something wrong about them just like they do with u.
don't listen to them and make jokes about it and they will feel stupid about it or just admit it with a jock
-hope it help hit me up
dont make yourself throw up! who cares what those stupid people think! a size 8-10 is not fat. just keep your head held high and ignore them.
Hi I'm looking for advice about a boy.. preferably from older women?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Hi I'm looking for advice about a boy.. preferably from older women?
Run.
If he wanted to be with you, if he really wanted a date, he would take you out no matter how much he had to work or how tired he is.
And if he hooked up with your friend, I would avoid that all together. Just a messy situation.
Also, its probably not a good idea to define when you will do what. It is good to know how far you are comfortable going as far as sex, but holding hands and such should be done when you feel it is right. Sometimes, it isn't even right on the first date.
Go with how you really feel. And if he likes you, he won't care if he gets to kiss you on the first or third date.
Run.
If he wanted to be with you, if he really wanted a date, he would take you out no matter how much he had to work or how tired he is.
And if he hooked up with your friend, I would avoid that all together. Just a messy situation.
Also, its probably not a good idea to define when you will do what. It is good to know how far you are comfortable going as far as sex, but holding hands and such should be done when you feel it is right. Sometimes, it isn't even right on the first date.
Go with how you really feel. And if he likes you, he won't care if he gets to kiss you on the first or third date.
If you were to give yourself one piece of advice about your own beliefs or lack thereof, what would it be?
TO BELIEVE IN MYSELF MOREIf you were to give yourself one piece of advice about your own beliefs or lack thereof, what would it be?
To have more faith, God doesn't need my help. : )If you were to give yourself one piece of advice about your own beliefs or lack thereof, what would it be?
I would tell myself ';you already know all you need to know';
To not let ANY religion govern MY life. Going about life with a positive attitude and doing the best I can at all I do is plenty.
NEVER settle in to ONE way of thinking, ALWAYS challenge your faith. Whatever faith that is.
you're right,stick to it
ALWAYS be thankful for what you have.
I will tell myself that YOU MUST BELIEVE IN SOMETHING. this might be the God that your religion introduces you, or any kind of beliefs.
without believing in a greatest power you will lose everything and will reach to a point that you have nothing to be alive for it.
Don't believe others, and don't believe yourself, because you will learn better as you get older.
Faith is the single most destructive, nonsensical and stupid concept ever to be perpetrated upon humanity.
The idea that you should believe something simply because you are told to believe is the epitome of ignorance. Faith is ';belief without evidence'; - and is defined by usage, not the Bible. I know some Xians will claim faith is ';the substance of things hoped for ...'; but that's not it. Substance is not faith, but the part about ';hope'; is.
Faith is wishful thinking based on hope, not reality. What's wrong with hope %26amp; faith you ask? How could the entire basis of your religion be wrong??
Faith in an afterlife cheapens the only life you DO have. The one here on Earth. Enjoy it while it lasts, it's fleeting. One day you'll be gone forever, and the only thing left will be the memories of you that exist in people's brains, so make SURE those are good %26amp; positive memories.
There is no god. Man invented god. That is not a belief, it's a fact. Man has invented THOUSANDS upon THOUSANDS of them. If you believe in one, yours is just one in a very long list of gods invented by man.
The concept of god is stupid %26amp; ignorant, as I will demonstrate:
1) God created all life.
2) God is alive.
3) Therefore, God created himself.
This eloquently demonstrates how stupid god belief actually is. There not only is no god, there CAN be no god. Infinity is just a concept, a direction. We know from calculus that nothing can ever attain infinity, not even a god. However, if you were going to invent a god, calling it infinite would guarantee that nobody elses god could one-up you. It's a complete fallacy that some infinite god exists.
So in a nutshell: Fantastic claims require fantastic evidence. If someone claims something that seems a bit unlikely, DEMAND evidence....
and there is none for any god.
FORGIVE OTHERS WRONG DEED AND NEVER FORGIVE MY OWN WRONG DEEDS
To have more faith, God doesn't need my help. : )If you were to give yourself one piece of advice about your own beliefs or lack thereof, what would it be?
I would tell myself ';you already know all you need to know';
To not let ANY religion govern MY life. Going about life with a positive attitude and doing the best I can at all I do is plenty.
NEVER settle in to ONE way of thinking, ALWAYS challenge your faith. Whatever faith that is.
you're right,stick to it
ALWAYS be thankful for what you have.
I will tell myself that YOU MUST BELIEVE IN SOMETHING. this might be the God that your religion introduces you, or any kind of beliefs.
without believing in a greatest power you will lose everything and will reach to a point that you have nothing to be alive for it.
Don't believe others, and don't believe yourself, because you will learn better as you get older.
Faith is the single most destructive, nonsensical and stupid concept ever to be perpetrated upon humanity.
The idea that you should believe something simply because you are told to believe is the epitome of ignorance. Faith is ';belief without evidence'; - and is defined by usage, not the Bible. I know some Xians will claim faith is ';the substance of things hoped for ...'; but that's not it. Substance is not faith, but the part about ';hope'; is.
Faith is wishful thinking based on hope, not reality. What's wrong with hope %26amp; faith you ask? How could the entire basis of your religion be wrong??
Faith in an afterlife cheapens the only life you DO have. The one here on Earth. Enjoy it while it lasts, it's fleeting. One day you'll be gone forever, and the only thing left will be the memories of you that exist in people's brains, so make SURE those are good %26amp; positive memories.
There is no god. Man invented god. That is not a belief, it's a fact. Man has invented THOUSANDS upon THOUSANDS of them. If you believe in one, yours is just one in a very long list of gods invented by man.
The concept of god is stupid %26amp; ignorant, as I will demonstrate:
1) God created all life.
2) God is alive.
3) Therefore, God created himself.
This eloquently demonstrates how stupid god belief actually is. There not only is no god, there CAN be no god. Infinity is just a concept, a direction. We know from calculus that nothing can ever attain infinity, not even a god. However, if you were going to invent a god, calling it infinite would guarantee that nobody elses god could one-up you. It's a complete fallacy that some infinite god exists.
So in a nutshell: Fantastic claims require fantastic evidence. If someone claims something that seems a bit unlikely, DEMAND evidence....
and there is none for any god.
FORGIVE OTHERS WRONG DEED AND NEVER FORGIVE MY OWN WRONG DEEDS
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